Thought of the Day: Monday 06-02-08 Puzzle "Peace"

Some people are architects, but not even they have a blueprint for love. Do we know ourselves 100 percent? Should we before we commit ourselves to another? Yes to the second, only if you can say yes to the first. Its impossible to give your all to another if you dont know what your all is. If you are still searching for the true you, you will have a great deal of difficulty trying to show your companion how to find you. This is not a reason to lose hope; because, knowing yourself and being a complete person are two totally different things. Its ok to be imperfect b/c though you can aspire to be without flaws we will always fall short. Somewhere, out there, however there is someone that will fill the gaps where you have shortcomings, finish the thoughts when you cant quite find the words, someone whose hand fits perfectly into the grooves of your hand like a piece to a puzzle, our puzzle piece. We cant possibly know who they will be, what they will look like, because they could be anyone from the person you never speak to at school, to some stranger you havent met yet. There is someone out there for all of us to teach us, to learn from us, to complete us. A neat freak for the slob, a comedian for the straight shooter, a freak for the prude, a saint to guide the sinner (hopefully). And so we come full circle to my original point, love is chaotic, if it was ordinary and structured and easy, we wouldn't value it the way we as humans do. We can't map it out, because we don't know our destinations. We can, with eyes wide open, let the wind guide us and chance reveal its mysteries. (At least its pretty to think so.)

Thought of the day 5-30-08: A mini Chocolate Drop

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*To the women out there that are screamin that there aren't any good black men ... you know in your heart that you're a damn lie. There just ain't no good men that meet all your qualifications. The nigga that you need might not be six feet, with six figures, a six pack, on twenty sixes, the ones you pass by might be the one that will listen to your ass seven days a week, till seven in the morning, about the seven different problems you tryin to deal with, and he might take the time out to love you seven hundred different ways. Don't limit yourself by the ideals you idolize and measure your own value by what material things a man can provide. Open yourself up to optimism and opportunity so that the superficial doesn't suppress your chance at true love. The only difference between an ordinary person and a genius is the way they allow themselves to see things. The next time opportunity knocks be smarter than the average bear.


*This message is not addressed to women in general, just the ones to whom it is referenced, and Niggas don't think you getting off that easy... You are next on the agenda. LOL!